Simple, you get the information directly from a woman who is willing to share what you can do to become a lover that satisfies his girl every time. This site is protected by reCAPTCHA Enterprise and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply. As one reader puts it, “If you like to have sex, if you are curious about sex, if you are nervous about sex, if you want the information you can actually trust about sex written by people who have done the homework, this is the book for you. this is The Empowered Womans Book Club, facilitated by Certified Sex Coach and Bodyworker, Jem Ayres. The information by in large is very helpful and is backed up by years of firsthand experience with men and women from a huge cross section of society.

I replied, It’s a four-letter word that ends in ‘K,’ and it means ‘intercourse,’ and I like to do it all night and a lot of the rest of the time. Our resident sex expert, Vanessa Carlisle, a dominatrix with a PhD in Creative Writing, Literature and Gender Studies from the University of Southern California, recommends this book to anyone who’s “kink curious and looking to self educate. It's a good book that leaves nothing to the imagination but spells out everything about the sexual act in detail. A self-help book won't kill you, although it might help kill some problems in your relationship and add some spice to your life.Graham’s book is a helpful read if you’re dealing with difficult sexual problems, from non-monogamy to the role of pornography in a relationship. I almost put this book back on the shelf after thinking it was going to be all about trying to score, but it isn't. With direct language and explicit tips, you'll learn how to satisfy her with some very blunt suggestions. However, I wasn't surprised to read in the Postscript that the book was written in a matter of months and I have to say as much as she thanks her editor, more could have been done to avoid lazy instances of repetition and to ensure consistency (not that I suggest that everything I've written on this blog achieves this - but then I don't have a professional editor glancing over my shoulder). I have to say I was a bit nervous putting myself out there but the comments have been super encouraging and helpful.

While many men have insecurities about their performance in bed, it can be hard to voice those concerns (or to seek help or guidance). What I have put together in these pages are the best tips for pleasuring a woman, and in the process, have mind-blowing sex.By learning three key elements--compassion, communication, and "technique"--you'll learn to get everything you ever wanted out of a woman--both in and out of bed--without arguing, manipulating, or begging. Her main points are having the right mindset, and understanding the importance that everything (even outside of the bedroom) is part of foreplay and getting her in the right mood. A classic for a reason, The Joy of Sex has been teaching couples to communicate about sex for decades. Sucking, flicking and using light-feather touch in and around the nipples are all a great way to get your woman seriously turned on. Conscious listening is a simple technique to deepen intimacy in any relationship and to improve the communication between you and your partner.